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Want to be successful in life?
Then remember that there has never been a successful person who wasn’t criticized, hated on or underestimated. Haters, criticism & rejection ALWAYS come with attention & success. .
Because who do haters hate?
People who are happy & successful. People like Oprah, Bill Gates & Steve Jobs. Companies like Apple & Google.
Who is a hater?
“A person that simply cannot be happy for another person’s success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.” Haters are quitters. Whenever someone hates on you, they're actually saying: “I’m a quitter & I'm hoping you quit too because it'll make sense of why I quit.”Haters are spectators who rarely have success in their own lives because they are too busy spectating others.
Why do haters hate?
Hate is “self-hate turned outward“. The goal of haters is rarely to help you, but to hold you back. Hate is a sign of weakness & fear. Haters hate on you because you’re doing what they cannot, will not or are too afraid to attempt. They’re reminded of their lack of willingness to take enough action in order to succeed & are jealous. The more attention you receive, the more they’re reminded of their weaknesses.
I’m NOT saying you should ignore all criticism! Of course there's always valid criticism which is different from hate. I value criticism from coaches & from people who've already achieved what I want to achieve & use it as an opportunity to improve! I DON'T value criticism from spectators & people who have given up on their own life & only want to pull me down in order to make themselves feel better. If you're ROCKING your life, be prepared that haters WILL come your way!
How do you handle haters?
Never get emotional or attack haters. Stay rational, disregard the criticism & move on. Take negative responses as an indicator that you're on the right track. Use haters as fuel to get to the next level, as inspiration to strive for even greater success!
When you’re new there will be critics, when you’re good there will be haters, and when you’re excellent they'll turn into admirers.
Remember: They can doubt you, they can fight you - but they NEVER STOP YOU!👊